LOOK BEYOND THE PHYSICAL VEIL

It's amazing how these days every Man wants to marry the lady in hijaab. He looks down upon the one without hijaab because to him, the precious diamond is the hijaabi. But the non-hijaabi is just another stone. Truthfully speaking, I think that's a first. I mean, it means times have changed and men are tired of being with the “wrong" women. To them, the hijaabi is simply Marriage Material. The non-hijaabi is simply a "free-wheeling-waster" Actually, that's also a first (lol).

Men no longer look at character traits, behaviour patterns, what a lady could be good at, her cooking skills, etc; Simply, they no longer look at her inner beauty. So far as she's "completely covered", then She's good to go with. Sorry to say this but guys, you are Very Wrong. Many of us hijaabis are also stones. The only difference is that, we have been covered with sand. The moment you wipe the sand off, you see the real us. Would you like the real us?! I'm sorry guys, but you're not the only once who are full of "hypocrisy"

Many of us do the hijaab for many reasons. Could be, to attract the man who wants a "precious diamond."To attract the "thumbs up" for being "religious" not Godly. Could also be, to be counted among the lot who do hijaab these days. But unfortunately, we care only about the outer looks since that's all you men care for. We simply have no time to "inspire" and feed the inner being. We give you what you want. If I can raise kids or not, you do not know.

If i can keep your home and property for you, boy, you do not know. As you men say, the way to a man's heart is through his stomach, can I cook at all? Well, you've not asked. Will I be patient with your silly attitude?!Come on, you should have showed some signs manna! Will I pamper you when you are sick?! Now that's silly. Who does that to a man?!When nature takes its course and your fate begins to show its real form, will I control myself by your side?!No, you've not asked. You could lose a part of you; will I live with the handicapped forever?!Of course, I did not even think about that. Will I argue with you on every point just to show you that "I Know My Right"?!Well, baby, you've not asked.

I'm too busy watching over what you've only seen and are attracted to. Men, you simply don't know but you think you do. After marriage you have NO right to complain that your wife is bad or beating you up (lol) because no one made that decision for you. You made your own choices and must live with it. Experience and Observations have made me realize that i am to fear even a "covered shadow".

I'll tell my brothers, if you make that decision, it's only yours to keep. So if you'll make it, just make it right because there's no going back. There are signs that Will let you know if the hijaabi you are choosing is "a rare gem" or simply "a rare stone” If you choose to overlook it and not pay attention to details, boy you decided your own destiny by choosing to live by the sword. Since you wouldn't look beyond the physical veil, then you have to die by the sword.